How to get respect always been a big question in relations.
Either you live in East or belong to Western World, respect is a big issue,,,, specially for women.
When its all been done and decided from motivational speakers to self improvement lectures with slogans like,"10 ways to get what you want"?, and women magazine writing essays over essays "how to make him fall for you', or "get your respect back in your relationship"etc,..... however no one formula is still proven to be the right one.
To most of us we learn to "Respect" or appreciate things very early on in our life... some of it is unconscious, and learned with our environment... what our families, communities usually consider "respectable", we tend to follow that path unconsciously... and it is not very defined unless challenged or compared, but always works as our default value system for rest of our lives,
Other kind of learning to respect is conscious or reactive which is what you experienced, or observed , which makes one extremely inspired by someones conduct, as examples like family members , how they treat each other or in other case ,how they not treat each other can drive young mind to detest that behaviour , and do the opposite in their practical lives ahead..
How ever important point is to stop fretting about how to teach, or make someone to respect ... it is the "capacity and conditioning " which make one to treat others with respect, which usually has been set long time ago ...
Either you live in East or belong to Western World, respect is a big issue,,,, specially for women.
When its all been done and decided from motivational speakers to self improvement lectures with slogans like,"10 ways to get what you want"?, and women magazine writing essays over essays "how to make him fall for you', or "get your respect back in your relationship"etc,..... however no one formula is still proven to be the right one.
To most of us we learn to "Respect" or appreciate things very early on in our life... some of it is unconscious, and learned with our environment... what our families, communities usually consider "respectable", we tend to follow that path unconsciously... and it is not very defined unless challenged or compared, but always works as our default value system for rest of our lives,
Other kind of learning to respect is conscious or reactive which is what you experienced, or observed , which makes one extremely inspired by someones conduct, as examples like family members , how they treat each other or in other case ,how they not treat each other can drive young mind to detest that behaviour , and do the opposite in their practical lives ahead..
How ever important point is to stop fretting about how to teach, or make someone to respect ... it is the "capacity and conditioning " which make one to treat others with respect, which usually has been set long time ago ...
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